Parenting

You’re Doing Better Than You Think: How to Calm Your Inner Parenting Critic 

Your Own Worst Critic  It’s 9:00 p.m. The house is finally quiet. You think back on the morning rush, the spilled cereal, the tantrum before school, the moment you lost your patience. A thought slips in: “I’m a bad parent.”  If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — you’re human. Every parent has moments of …

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Protective Factors for Families: Social and Emotional Competence of Children 

Imagine two little 3-year-olds building a creation out of blocks. Just as she wants to take the last red block, another child snatches it away. Maddy’s reaction is to grab the block, shout “No!”, and start to cry loudly when the other child does not return the block. Escalating into anger and frustration, she throws …

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Protective Factors for Families: Social Connections

Of all Five Protective Factors (aka Five Strengths), Social Connections is the strongest predictor of well-being. When we have positive, accessible connections with supportive others in our lives, we can ask them for help, find emotional support, and share parenting experiences and information. These positive experiences also build resilience and help support children’s social and …

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Protective Factors for Families: Concrete Support in Times of Need

You just got into your car, after finally getting your 3-year-old buckled into her car seat, and… the car won’t start. For some reason, the battery died, and now you fear being late for work, after dropping your child off at preschool. What would you do next?  Everyone needs help sometimes! In this example, maybe …

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Protective Factors for Families: Knowledge of Parenting and Child Development

Parenting is a journey! Before a baby is born, parents-to-be often feel excitement that can oscillate between happy anticipation and anxiety about the unknown future. After the baby is born, a process of adaptation follows. In a way, parenting is a process of constant adaptation and readjustment. Especially in the early years, children develop so …

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